A well-known proverb says, “A woman is a mystery.” If all the philosophers work together to develop a book that will answer all the common psychology of a woman, they will tragically fail. Women are confused by nature. Sometimes they don’t know what they want, so it’s almost impossible for a man to read their mind and reveal the secret of their feelings and emotions. However, I have met numerous women in my lifetime, and I swear, they are entirely different from each other from the view of their thoughts and choices.
It’s not apparent that a guy with all attractive features will win the battle, but some unique qualities will maximize the chance. Impressing a woman might be the easiest task for some men, while others might try their whole life and get nothing. A man might win millions of women’s hearts yet not get the attention of his one desired lady.
In this article, I will tell you how to impress the woman of your dream. Point to be remembered that I don’t guarantee your success as I mentioned that women’s minds are complicated, and their preferences differ from one to another.
First of all, I am going to divide the number of women into three different categories based on their ages. And also I’ll describe their common preferences.
Teenage Girls (ages 15 to 20):
High school girls are very straightforward in their statements. They like challenges. Most of these girls like men they can’t get easily. e.g., their teacher, a random celebrity, etc. They are prone to enjoy their lives rather than settling down with someone too early. Most of them are attracted to handsome young guys with a passion for sports or other real-life activities.
Impressing a teenage girl might be tricky for you if you are not handsome enough or if you don’t have anything to highlight yourself (I’m sorry). But being rich or having an expensive motorcycle can greatly increase your chances. In that case, your handsomeness might not be an issue to count on.
My first teenage girlfriend was a reasonable woman. Quite different from the typical teenagers. I didn’t have a lot of money, and nor did I have a prospective future. Yet we were together for a long period of time until we split due to a silly reason.
Youth Girls (ages 21 to 35):
Girls are more mature and realistic compared to teenage girls. They don’t run after the illogical illusions that they can not achieve. They are more career-focused, and they have a plan for the future. Apart from some numbers, most of them want to go for a long-term relationship. Most women over 30 prefer a committed relationship rather than wasting time on random tryouts. They prefer men with who they have some interests in common. Girls not only go for the physical looks but also care about the personality and mentality of the men. They are attracted to guys with bold personalities, confident attitudes, high ambition, unique character, and the ability to handle any situation. They want a man with a combination of mind and muscle. Pretty tough, right?
Matured Ladies (ages 36 to 50):
My favorite. A mature lady can not only be your partner but also a great friend. This is the age where people put all their experiences together to make any decision. A significant quantity of mid-aged women doesn’t care about physical appearance at all. Women have some particular criteria that they have to fill up. They want a person with great moral conscience and outlook. They prefer a kind and caring man who can take care of them. Some of them will accept you even if you are 1 or 2 inches shorter than them, but you have to make them laugh with your wonderful sense of humor. Spending time with mature ladies is a joy. You’ll gain a lot of experience and believe me; they will give you more chances to fix up if things go wrong. I have met a lot of mature ladies in my life and most of them are knowledgeable and full of positive vibes.
Now I will put everything in common and make this work easy for you. There are some qualities that women of all ages appreciate. Below, I have given 10 rules on “How to impress a woman” in general.
1. Have A Good Personality
A good personality is more of a genetic thing. It’s almost impossible for you to become “Batman” if your father is Joker (never mind: that’s an example). But surely you can improve yourself. Read a lot of biographical books. Know about famous people with magnificent personalities. Don’t copy them. Try to learn how they react to situations and how they deal with things. Build up your own personality that fits you. The majority of mature women prefer a man with a good personality rather than a handsome jerk.
2. Have A Bold Attitude
Don’t mix things up. Having a great attitude doesn’t mean being rough or aggressive. It’s all about acting accordingly. Be polite where you need to be polite, and be tough where you need to be tough. Be water and change your shape according to the circumstances. Gain the ability to handle any situation.
3. Be Confident, Be Brave
According to Mahdi Shah, 50% of a man’s brain should be filled with confidence, and the rest should contain courage. A man without confidence is no man. If you think you are on the right track, don’t let anyone stop you with their words or actions. Women of all ages adore confident, brave guys.
4. Take Care Of Yourself
Before you find a person to take care of, learn to take care of yourself first. It’s an obvious fact that a depressed person can not motivate others. Women don’t take those guys seriously who can’t care for themselves. Have a good sense of dressing, care about your hygiene and remain well-groomed. Get a perfect haircut that suits your face shape. Take good care of your skin and, most importantly, put some effort into your oral hygiene. No one likes to talk to a person with a stinky breath. A beautiful smile goes a long way.
5. Have A Good Sense of Humor
Everyone loves to laugh. It’s a universal truth that 100% of women like a guy with a good sense of humor. This excellent quality can increase your chance from zero to a thousand in no time. From my personal experience, I have seen many men have won their dream lady with just one punch line or a sarcastic comment. A good sense of humor will balance your other shortcomings.
I’m telling you to become a comedian, not a clown. The first one is funny, and the other one is fun itself.
6. Achieve Good Communication Skills
Who doesn’t like a well-spoken guy? It is not only used to win a woman but is also an essential requirement in every aspect of life. It’s the second most important thing after you pass the first impression test. When a lady approves of your appearance, it all depends on your talking whether you can impress her or you lose the chance. Put in mind, always be positive while talking. No one likes a person with negative vibes who constantly complains about life. Good eye contact and smiling replies are the secrets to catching her heart.
7. Go To The Gym
Don’t do it to get women. Do it for yourself. Working out is the best option to get your body fit for daily activities. It will provide you with a plentiful energy supply and boost your confidence. A major amount of women like men with good physiques. A recent study says that women prefer athletes over guys with other professions.
8. Have A Hobby
Everyone has a hobby. Hobbies are the epitome of personality. A girl will easily conjecture your mentality and thoughts through your hobby. Reading novels, listening to music, watching movies and sports are the most common types of hobbies. It doesn’t matter what hobby you adopt; the thing is, you have to be loyal to it. Having a hobby means you can’t cheat on it. It’s like a relationship. If reading books is your favorite work to do and you give it up only because you are with a woman who doesn’t like it, then you might fall into the category of men with fragile personalities.
9. Have A Passion
There is little difference between a hobby and a passion. A passion must be a hobby, but all hobbies are not always a passion. For example, reading novels is my hobby, but collecting novels is my passion. Listening to music is my hobby, but collecting music albums is my passion. Hobbies are the work we do in our free time, but passions are those we are more dedicated to. Passions are like an obsession. People often try to get a profession related to their passion for avoiding the dullness of work. Women find passionate men very attractive. In my opinion, traveling, bodybuilding, and singing are the types of passions that women find very attractive in men.
10. Get A Pet
Warning! If you are not a pet lover, avoid this point. Keeping a cat or a dog just to impress a woman is complete stupidity. But if you really love animals and you think you can take care of them properly, you should get yourself a pet. And if you already have one, let me tell you, you are one step ahead. Women are very fond of pets and adore those who have pets. If you have a pet, there is a huge possibility that you will have a mutual interest that will raise your chance sky level. Taking good care of pets indicates that you can take care of her too. Women like being cared for.
Be A Gentleman, Respect Women
A man should always act like a gentleman towards a lady. Women are meant to be respected, no matter who they are or what they do. Women carry us in their wombs, and they give birth to our children. They are supposed to be treated like queens and princesses. This is not something that I should teach you because every single man should know that. I’ve included this point to let you know that many guys out there don’t respect women. A woman’s heart is very delicate and soft. They remember things better than we do. If you hurt their feelings with your one rude word, they will remember it till judgment day. Never disrespect a woman. It’s not a rule to impress girls. It’s a basic morality that every man should adopt to have a good personality, which is the first requirement of my top 10 rules.